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![]() Dear healthwellness82@gmail.com, Facebook is a fast way to find a friend or romantic partner with whom you’ve lost touch -- but some searches present unique challenges and require more legwork. Troy Dunn, a former private investigator and television host of The Locator, reveals his best secrets for tracking down a difficult-to-find-person. Once you find that certain someone, it’s important to make contact in a way that will be comfortable for both of you. Dunn explains how. There’s a surprisingly easy way to keep your blood pressure in check -- eat popcorn! Research scientist Alan Flint, MD, DrPH of the Harvard School of Public Health in Boston, shares this and other food tips for keeping high blood pressure at bay. All the best, ![]() Jessica Kent Editor BottomLineSecrets.com Secrets of Troy "The Locator" Troy Dunn Friends slip from our lives. Relatives can drift away, too. Branches break off the family tree, and adoptions separate family members. Most people know to do a Google search or to check Facebook to find people. Here, other ways... SEARCH THE OBITS FOR LIVE PEOPLE Search the obituaries for relatives of the person you are looking for. Obituaries typically include a list of the deceased’s surviving relatives complete with their current hometowns. If you know where your missing person’s family lived, find out if that town’s local newspaper has a searchable archive on its Web site. If not, contact the newspaper or the town’s library and ask if there’s some other way to search the newspaper’s archive. If so, search the archive for obits featuring your missing person’s last name (or maiden name, if appropriate), then check whether these obituaries mention your friend’s name and hometown in the list of surviving relatives. If the local newspaper doesn’t have a searchable database -- or you’re not sure where the missing person’s family lived and died -- use the Social Security Death Index (SSDI) to locate times and places of death for relatives. (This also can help you determine if the person you are looking for has died.) Then scan the obituary section of relevant newspapers, focusing on the papers that came out in the day or two following these deaths. Limited free access to the SSDI is available through www.RootsWeb.com (click on "Social Security Death Index") and www.GenealogyBank.com (click on "Social Security Death Index"), among other Web sites. SOLICIT FREE HELP You may be able to get free help from amateur genealogists. Genealogy is among the fastest-growing hobbies in the US. Many amateur genealogists love solving mysteries involving heritage, missing family members and other long-lost individuals. To start, visit the free Web site RootsWeb.com and post a note on the message board explaining your search and asking for guidance or assistance. Provide the name of the person you are trying to find, where and approximately when this person was born and any additional details that you have about this person’s relatives and places of residence. An amateur genealogist might take up the search for fun. You will have to register with RootsWeb.com to post a message, but registration is free. This Web site is international and is particularly useful when missing people live outside the US. CHECK ORGANIZATIONS Reach out to relevant organizations. If you know where the person you’re trying to find once worked, perhaps he/she still works there. Check whether his name is listed on the company’s Web site... or call the company’s switchboard, and ask for the person. You also can contact organizations related to this person’s line of work and ask if this person is a member... and contact the alumni association of schools he attended. If any organization is unwilling to share contact information for privacy reasons, ask if it can forward a note to this person for you. SPECIAL SEARCH SITUATIONS
It is best to sign up for free adoptee registries, such as my TroysList.org and International Soundex Reunion Registry (http://isrr.net), a nonprofit organization. These Web sites match birth parent and adoptee if both sign up. Warning: Be wary of adoptee registries that charge fees. Most deliver less than promised -- some are scams. Helpful: The US Department of Health and Human Services provides details about each state’s adoption records access laws on its Web site, www.ChildWelfare.gov (select "State Statutes Search," then choose the state where the adoption occurred and "Access to Adoption Records"). Many states let adoptees and birth parents petition in court for the disclosure of "identifying information" about their parents or children -- but this information usually is supplied only if the birth parent or adoptee already has filed a written consent form with the state to allow disclosure. (Adoptees generally are allowed to file consent forms only after they reach age 18 or 21.) In some states, the court also is allowed to select an intermediary to contact the birth parents or adoptee and request their permission to share the information if a consent form has not been filed.
Example: You remember that your friend John Smith had a brother named Caleb... or that his mother’s maiden name was Hefferman. If you locate a relative, this person probably knows where to find John or where to find another family member who does. MAKING CONTACT Handle the initial contact wisely. What you say or write will have a significant effect on whether this person is happy to hear from you...
Example: "Oh, sure. Wow. How are you?" Do not immediately press for an in-person meeting. Explain that you were wondering what became of this person... or if it’s a relative, that you are putting together a family tree.
Bottom Line/Personal interviewed Troy Dunn, a former private investigator who now hosts The Locator, a television show about reuniting lost loved ones, Wednesdays at 10 pm eastern time on WeTV. He has helped thousands of people find former friends and relatives through his Web site and TV show. www.TroyTheLocator.com ![]() Whole Grains Linked to Lower Blood Pressure Alan Flint, MD, DrPH Harvard School of Public Health New study: Researchers who reviewed health and nutrition data for 31,684 men found that those who consumed the most whole grains (about 52 g daily) were 19% less likely to develop high blood pressure than those who consumed the least whole grains (about 3 g daily). Best sources: Oatmeal (instant or cooked) -- one cup, 30 g to 35 g... popcorn -- one cup, 10 g to 12 g... whole-wheat bread -- one slice, about 15 g... and bran cereal -- one cup, 5 g to 10 g. Bottom Line/Health interviewed Alan Flint, MD, DrPH, research scientist, department of nutrition, Harvard School of Public Health, Boston. ![]() ![]() New INSTANT Cure for Extra High Cholesterol -- Cholesterol Drops 100 Points or More Important: Help your friends get much more out of life -- forward this E-letter to them. Better: Send it to many friends and your whole family. This is a free weekly e-mail service of BottomLineSecrets.com and Boardroom Inc. Boardroom Inc. 281 Tresser Boulevard Stamford, CT 06901-3229 ATTN: Web Team You received this e-mail because you have requested it. You are on the mailing list as healthwellness82@gmail.com. Or... a friend forwarded it to you. Disclaimer: Bottom Line Secrets publishes the opinions of expert authorities in many fields. But the use of these opinions is no substitute for legal, accounting, investment, medical and other professional services to suit your specific personal needs. Always consult a competent professional for answers to your specific questions. Bottom Line Secrets is a registered trademark of Boardroom Inc. Subscribe | Unsubscribe | Update My E-mail Preferences Change My E-mail Address | Contact Us | Privacy Policy Copyright (c) 2011 by Boardroom Inc. |

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